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The Fellowship Factor

Practicing God’s hospitality in church

Titus Naftanaila

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The Fellowship Factor
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How can declining church attendance be reversed to generate transformation, revival, and growth through a community-based culture of hospitality? Can a stagnant church be revitalized through an intentional program that focuses on welcoming and accepting new guests and nonattending members?

It is generally known that church attendance in many parts of the world has decreased tremendously, and even among the majority of specific populations in countries that identify as Christian, most don’t participate in regular church activities and programs. Many Seventh-day Adventist churches are experiencing plateau or decline, particularly in Western countries and among younger generations.

Many modern churches see themselves as warm and friendly communities for newcomers. This view comes mainly from their feelings about interacting with friends and acquaintances, as well as the superficial friendliness they often show to new visitors. They also believe that worship services and various programs create natural opportunities for connection and a sense of belonging.

Often a disconnect exists between what visitors perceive and the church’s view of genuine hospitality. Although newcomers may be impressed by the worship, programs, or activities, they might still feel detached from the church’s internal fellowship, which could lead to their stopping attendance altogether.

To reverse the trend, church growth specialists recommend creating authentic communities within the church and fostering a culture of intentional hospitality, which directly impacts both spiritual and numerical growth. That is why I invite you to consider several key components of the community-based hospitality approach.

Designed to Connect

Humanity was created to coexist harmoniously with divinity and one another. God made Adam and Eve to mirror the relationship among the persons of the Godhead, which are deeply interconnected through love, mutual support, and complementarity.

The biblical statement “It is not good that man should be alone” (Gen. 2:18) is often referenced in the context of marriage. Still, it can also serve as an example of the importance of all human interactions. “Two are better than one” (Eccl. 4:9) is another powerful reminder of the need for interconnectedness and mutual support.

God did not create us to live in isolation; that is a result of sin in our world. We are designed to connect and support one another, with each of us focusing on the growth and development of others.

Besides families and other essential support groups, the church was established by Jesus for the same purpose: to rebuild the concept of community for emotional and spiritual support for everyone. The apostles were trained and commanded to create an environment that promotes acceptance, altruism, and inclusion among all participants in church programs and activities.

Several biblical metaphors in the New Testament highlight the communal nature of the church. Phrases such as “the kingdom of God” (Mark 1:15; see also John 18:36), “the temple of God” (1  Cor. 3:16, 17), “the family of God” (see Matt. 12:49, 50), and “the body of Christ” (1 Cor. 12:27; see also Eph. 1:22) powerfully illustrate the idea of community among believers, emphasizing collective relationship with Jesus Christ over individualism.

The key elements of the New Testament spiritual gatherings were worship, fellowship, discipleship, compassionate service, and expanding God’s kingdom. Togetherness in Christ was highly encouraged as an essential part of the Christian journey. Believers and guests prayed, read Scripture, sang hymns, listened to sermons, praised God, participated in Communion, and were baptized as a collective act of worship.

A Theology of Welcome

The concept of hospitality is often linked to love, friendliness, and warmth toward others, which are essential to human relationships and are widely shown throughout the biblical narrative, from Genesis to Revelation. It reflects the core of God’s nature as the supreme host. From the beginning God welcomed humanity into existence and established a special relationship with them, offering His loving grace and acceptance to everyone without discrimination.

We are designed to connect and support one another, with each of us focusing on the growth and development of others.

In a spiritual sense, God acts as the host in worship, inviting everyone to join His kingdom on earth. Furthermore, Jesus came to expand God’s welcome and community within the framework of salvation and the redemption of the lost. This is exemplified in the statement “Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28).

The church, as the household of God, is also called to be His ambassadors, practicing the theology of welcome indiscriminately and focusing on the emotional, physical, and spiritual needs of everyone. This is not optional, but the essence of Christianity, which is based on Jesus’ promise that He “will draw all peoples to Myself” (John 12:32).

In other words, church hospitality is not merely a series of techniques or strategies aimed at attracting and retaining guests based on their perceived needs and shared interests. It is neither a spiritual gift nor an ability exclusive to a particular group of people. Instead, it reflects God’s attributes and Jesus’ primary mission to invite everyone into a covenant of love with Him.

Fellowship as a Prerequisite

The early church stressed the importance of fellowship as essential for discipleship and growth. Acts 2:42, referring to those who have been baptized and added to the church, states: “And they continued steadfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in prayers.” The new members were invited to join the church fellowship not just for social support but also to take part in the corporate worship and discipleship programs.

The New Testament clearly connects belonging to the body of Christ with the spiritual growth of each individual, all within the context of fellowship with God. The apostle John writes: “That you also may have fellowship with us; and truly our fellowship is with the Father and with His Son Jesus Christ” (1 John 1:3). The new believers were encouraged to walk with Jesus (Col. 2:6), “examine” themselves if they are “in the faith” (2 Cor. 13:5), be “crucified” with Jesus and let Him “live” in them (Gal. 2:20; Eph. 3:17-19), keep seeking the things “above” (Col. 3:1), and constantly “add” to their faith” (2 Peter 1:4-10).

An Awareness Campaign

My Doctor of Ministry project focused on increasing awareness of community-based hospitality, and training was carried out at my church, which had 560 members in a city with a population of 100,000.

At the beginning of the process I assessed how church attendees perceived their sense of welcome and belonging. Later a dedicated action group composed of key stakeholders was formed to lead training, brainstorming, and review of the entire process. All departmental leaders responsible for welcoming and integration were encouraged to emphasize hospitality based on biblical principles and to support specific activities and programs in that area. Additionally, a series of sermons on community, sense of belonging, and hospitality were presented.

The post-implementation survey, which assessed both church members and guests, showed the effectiveness of the awareness campaign. The church was revitalized and became motivated to play its important role as part of God’s hospitality team for all attendees.

As a result, a couple who had recently begun attending the church were very impressed by the new welcoming environment, asked for Bible studies, and were soon baptized—highlighting the significance of a community-focused hospitality climate in personal and kingdom growth.

Three Keys

Any church seeking growth through community-based hospitality should follow three key steps.

First, encourage members to cultivate an intentional atmosphere of welcome before, during, and after worship, especially one that extends beyond the time and place of group gatherings. The spirit of community, belonging, and inclusiveness should be evident in every program and activity as an expression of God’s desire to connect and welcome everyone into a special relationship with Him and the church.

Second, train all leaders and ministries that have direct or indirect responsibilities for welcoming, community building, and integrating guests and new members. Different layers of welcome and hospitality need to be implemented, and every church activity or program should be assessed and adjusted accordingly.

Third, create opportunities for guests and members to foster stronger interactions built on love, acceptance, and mutual support. Whether in corporate worship services, small groups, or social events, innovative approaches should be used to enhance the sense of belonging and integration.

Unlike manipulative or superficial methods used to attract and retain new members, authentic hospitality is fundamental for the church’s spiritual and numerical growth. Both the sense of community and the ministry of welcome are rooted in God’s nature and are part of the Great Commission. God creates community through the Holy Spirit, and He invites the church to be His ambassador on earth. The ministry of hospitality is not part of discipleship or evangelism; understood from a biblical perspective, it is, in fact, a way of life, evangelism in its purest form.

Titus Naftanaila

Titus Naftanaila is president of the Wisconsin Conference of Seventh-day Adventists.

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