May 21, 2026

When God Is Silent

Having faith when there is no assurance

by

Bill Santos

Faith is one of the most frequently used words in the Christian vocabulary—and yet one of the most easily misunderstood. We speak of it often, sing about it regularly, and may even assume we possess it simply because we belong to a faith community. But when life grows uncertain, prayers seem unanswered, and heaven feels silent, we quickly discover how fragile our understanding of faith can be.

Scripture defines faith as “the evidence of things not seen” (Heb. 11:1). From the outset, faith is placed in tension with visibility, control, and emotional reassurance. By its very nature, faith must operate when something essential appears to be missing.

This week’s lesson invites us to consider faith, not as a feeling, not as certainty, and not as theological mastery, but as a living, persevering trust in God—especially when circumstances test that trust most severely.

Faith and the Desire for Signs

Human beings have always wanted signs. “If I could just see something,” we tell ourselves, “then I would believe.” The Pharisees repeatedly demanded signs from Jesus, even after witnessing miracle upon miracle. Jesus’ response was not anger but grief—a deep sigh from His spirit (Mark 8:12). Their problem was not a lack of evidence, but a lack of trust.

Ellen White explains that what the Jews truly needed was not additional proof, but inner transformation: “No mere external evidence could benefit them. What they needed was not intellectual enlightenment, but spiritual renovation”[1]

Signs do not create faith. At best, they may confirm the things that faith already trusts. Faith grows not from spectacle, but from remembering who God has already revealed Himself to be.

When Jesus Notices Faith

One of the most striking features of the Gospels is the people Jesus praises for their faith. It is not the disciples—those who walked with Him daily, heard His teaching, and witnessed His miracles. Instead, Jesus singles out outsiders: a Roman centurion and a Canaanite woman. Neither belonged to the covenant community. Neither possessed formal theological training. Yet Jesus declared that He had not found such great faith even in Israel.

The story of the Canaanite woman (Matt. 15:21-28) is especially revealing. She approaches Jesus in desperation, pleading for her daughter’s deliverance. Jesus responds with silence—not a word. The disciples grow impatient and urge Him to send her away. When Jesus finally speaks, His words seem discouraging, even dismissive. And yet the woman remains.

Why?

Because genuine faith is not anchored in comfort, affirmation, or immediate answers. It is anchored in trust—specifically, trust in the character of God.

Faith is proven, not by what we can explain, but by whom we cling to when explanations fail.

Ellen White offers a crucial insight into Christ’s silence: “The Saviour is satisfied. He has tested her faith in Him.”[2] The silence of Jesus was not the absence of love; it was the means by which faith was revealed.

Faith Is Not Knowledge

This woman knew very little. Everything she knew about Jesus had come secondhand. She had not studied the law. She did not understand prophetic timelines. She had not heard the Sermon on the Mount. And yet Jesus called her faith “great.” By contrast, Judas knew much and trusted little.

This contrast should give us pause. Knowledge matters. Truth matters. But faith and information are not the same. A person may know much about God and still not trust Him. Faith is proven, not by what we can explain, but by whom we cling to when explanations fail.

Faith Is Not a Feeling

The lesson reminds us that faith is not a feeling—and this is, in fact, merciful. Feelings fluctuate with circumstances, health, fatigue, and disappointment. If faith depended on emotional consistency, few would endure spiritually.

Ellen White states this plainly: “Feeling is not faith. Faith is simply to take God at His word.”[3] Faith is a response to God’s grace, prompted by the Holy Spirit, and exercised most powerfully when feelings are absent.

This is why the father in Mark 9:24 could cry out, “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!” Faith and uncertainty may coexist; the presence of questions does not negate faith—the refusal to trust God does.

The Silence of God

Perhaps the greatest test of faith is not suffering, opposition, or delay—but silence.

The Canaanite woman endured rejection from people and misunderstanding from religious leaders, but the silence of Jesus may have created the deepest crisis. When God does not answer, troubling questions arise: Does He care? Is He listening? Have I been forgotten?

Ellen White describes the woman’s response to that silence: “Although Jesus did not reply, the woman did not lose faith. As He passed on, as if not hearing her, she followed Him, continuing her supplications. . . . The woman urged her case with increased earnestness, bowing at Christ’s feet, and crying, ‘Lord, help me.’ . . . This answer would have utterly discouraged a less earnest seeker. But the woman saw that her opportunity had come. Beneath the apparent refusal of Jesus, she saw a compassion that He could not hide.”[4]

Faith does not interpret silence as rejection. It interprets silence through trust in God’s love.

Scripture repeatedly illustrates this truth. John the Baptist boldly proclaimed Christ as the Lamb of God, yet later, imprisoned and isolated, he asked of Jesus, “Are You the Coming One, or do we look for another?” (Luke 7:19). The change was not theological confusion, but the weight of unanswered expectation. Delay does not mean denial, and silence does not mean abandonment.

Faith That Does Not Take God for Granted

When Jesus finally speaks, His words appear to place a barrier between Himself and the woman. She does not argue, accuse, or demand. She does not claim entitlement. Instead, she appeals to mercy.

Faith does not require understanding God’s ways; it requires trusting God’s heart.

Ellen White observes that the woman “begs for the crumbs that fall from the Master’s table. If she may have the privilege of a dog, she is willing to be regarded as a dog. She has no national or religious prejudice or pride to influence her course, and she immediately acknowledges Jesus as the Redeemer, and as being able to do all that she asks of Him.”[5] Faith never assumes that God owes us anything. It does not bargain with God or present a record of good deeds. Faith casts itself entirely upon grace.

Grace, by definition, is undeserved. The moment we believe God must act because of our obedience or service, faith quietly shifts into entitlement. The woman understood what many forget: God’s blessings flow, not from our worthiness, but from His goodness.

What sustained this woman was not logic or reassurance, but confidence in Jesus’ love. Ellen White notes, “Beneath the apparent refusal of Jesus, she saw a compassion that He could not hide.”[6]

This is the foundation of all true faith. Faith does not require understanding God’s ways; it requires trusting God’s heart.

The Faith of Jesus

The lesson culminates with one of Scripture’s most significant expressions: “the faith of Jesus” (Rev. 14:12). This phrase refers not merely to Jesus’ beliefs, but to His unwavering trust in the Father.

That faith was most clearly revealed at the cross. There heaven was silent. Darkness covered the land. Deliverance did not come. And yet Jesus still cried, “My God.” Even without reassurance, He trusted.

Ellen White summarizes both the woman’s experience and Christ’s example: “In faith the woman of Phoenicia flung herself against the barriers that had been piled up between Jew and Gentile. Against discouragement, regardless of appearances that might have led her to doubt, she trusted the Saviour’s love. It is thus that Christ desires us to trust in Him. The blessings of salvation are for every soul. Nothing but his own choice can prevent any man from becoming a partaker of the promise in Christ by the gospel.”[7]

This is the faith God desires to reproduce in His people.

Holding On

Faith is not heroic confidence; it is quiet perseverance. It is holding on when prayers feel unheard, when answers delay, and when God seems silent. We may come trembling. We may come confused. We may come with tears. But when we come trusting God’s love, Jesus still calls that faith “great.”

May God grant us—not only faith in Jesus—but the faith of Jesus.

[1] Ellen G. White, The Desire of Ages (Mountain View, Calif.: Pacific Press Pub. Assn., 1898, 1940), p. 406.

[2] Ibid., p. 401.

[3] Ellen G. White, Testimonies for the Church (Mountain View, Calif.: Pacific Press Pub. Assn., 1948), vol. 1, p. 620.

[4] E. G. White, The Desire of Ages, pp. 400, 401.

[5] Ibid., p. 401.

[6] Ibid.

[7] Ibid., p. 403.

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Bill Santos is the speaker/director for Lessons for Living, a nationwide broadcast in Canada.

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